Life is like a picture you are trying to complete.
Boy/Girlfriends are like the sketches u try out before deciding on 1, and sketches that are "wrong" may sometime leave scars behind even when erased.
Getting married is when u finally decided on that "perfect" sketch.
Having children is like adding colors to your picture, hard to control and could real get dirty. But also an essential essence that brings your picture out even more.
And when it is all over, you can always look back on your picture smile and say thats mine
ps: Every one wants to be what they want to see (from Rie Fu my fav J artist)